Tuesday, 12 June 2012

FAMILY BONDING

     Family consists of father, mother, brother and sister. A happy family can be created through a tight family bond. there are many ways to tighten the family bond such as bonding through some activities.Parents and their children can understand each other better. Moreover, understanding is also one of the must points needed to create a happy family.

    One of the activity that we can do in order to tighten the family bond is parents should spend more quality time with their children. Parents and their children should have a good communication during tea time and talk about what's going on in their lives. On top of that, parents should not spend their time with work all the time. This situation will cause their children feel that they are abandoned. Hence, can cause their children to think that their parents do not love them anymore.

    Another way to tighten the family bonding is parents should take their children for a vacation. Parents can take their children to the many vacation spots around the world. Parent can take their children to Hong Kong Disneyland or our very own Legoland here in Malaysia or maybe to the historical countries. Through this activity, parents and children can enhance their knowledge as they are travelling.

   Parents should always eat during breakfast, lunch, tea, dinner and also supper with their children. This is another way to tighten the family bonding. Through this activity, parents can know their children's favourite foods and drinks. This activity also will make their children feel that they are loved by their parents.

     As for the conclusion, there are many ways to tighten the family bond. On top of that, parents and children must cooperate in order to tighten the family bond. Besides parents should not always scold their kids because children do not like to be scolded all the time.

Monday, 11 June 2012

FAMILY BONDING

   Our parents are the most important thing in our life. the have sacrifice everything for us to make us still comfortable. So as their children,, we should make sure our bond in the family is very tight. Besides, we have to respect them in whatever way. Do not over being an unfaithful child because every religion in world invariable to respect our parents. But, in this milennium, children now have expose to intelligent technology such as I-pad and smart phone. So, many children do not have time to catch up with family.

    To strengthen the family bonding, many activities can be run out with family member. Like my family, last year we had a family day at Kerteh, Terengganu, we spend 3 days and 2 nights there. On the morning, we find out some homestay that can be rent then we went to the Pantai Kemasik which located 30km from Kuala Terengganu. We had a lot of activities such as playing volleyball, beach hockey, barbeque and many more.The most excitement moment when all the family gathered and the leader of a family had to give speech. Their speech was very funny and can make us laugh. Not just that, all the family member were very sporting and cooperate together to win the challenge. What a wonderful time with the family.

    Besides, we can go to a vacation to strengthen the family bonding. When i was in Form 3, my mother brought us to Vietnam. We were very enjoy the vacation and used the time wisely. The vacation helps our family to understand deep in our heart, we spend time together and release all the tension there. I can understand now my parent really wanted their children happy. They do not think about how much money they spend and it does not a matter on my goodness. How i love my parents.

    Always have meal together can bring the family together. When all the family members on the table, they can share any problems and can tell any story to our parents. So, we feel so close to our parent and we can expect them as a friend but respect them as our parent. When we eat our mother's cooking, we much more appreciate our mother. So, gathering together and eat delicious food together can be an excitement for us in strengthened the family bonding.          

ACTIVITIES THAT FOSTER FAMILY BOND



                 Close family relationship is important to ensure the relationship of the family will not be broken. Without family, we can’t survive. Without their love and support especially our parents because without them, we will not exist in this beautifu world.
                Like me, I have a big family. We always spend time together. But now, everyone is busy with their work and studies. So, for this last semester holidays I had planned a lot of things to do with my family to help regain the bond of my lovely family. I decide to make a camping trip at the rainforest. I called each of my family members including all my cousins to join my camp. Many activites have been planned such as reading maps, jungle trekking, hiking and canoeing.
                When we arrived, we were divided into small groups. Each group was ave a different task to cooperate with each other. We worked together to set up the tent, prepare the food and looking for firewood. Eventhough we were tired because we just arrived and keep doing work but we done it with full of cheerfulness. On that night, we slept early because on the next day many activities waited for us. By the way, it was so hard to close the eyes because we got a war with the mosquitoes.
                On the next day, we did a jungle trekking activity. When we pass through the slope, my leg got stuck at the tree’s root and I fell into the chasm. Luckily the chasm was not too deep but I still cried because of the pain. Then my father provided emergency help. All my family and cousin helped me to walk. Gratefully, the wound was not too bad. So, I can still continue my trekking and we were successfully done all the activities we had planned.
                I felt so happy with this camping because I can spend time doing the challenging activities eventhough I got hurt. But, it satisfied me when all my family get closed back together.

Let Us Foster Our Family Bond!! ^_^

        As a student that live at the hostel, we felt that it is so hard for us to having leisure with our family. It is also same with me that live in the hostel at SMK Sultanah Hajjah Kalsom. I always wait for the beautiful holiday that can uphold my family bond. Luckily, the time is come! That is what I am desire on. It's holiday! Woooohhooooooo....!!!! That is also give time for my family to hang out wherever.
         For the first day of the holiday, my whole family had gone to Kuala Lumpur and stay there for a day. After that, we went to the Kuala Lumpur International Airport to sent my grandmother and other siblings because they want to make 'umrah'. A few hours later, we went back home together.
       
            A weeks later, my father plans to brought us to Malacca to have a fun holiday. He said to me that he want to make our family bond became tough. We have a very beautiful holiday there for a few days!! After that, went back to Kuala Lumpur and fetch my grandmother from Macca. She is fine as always. 
        At home, she gave me some things that she has brought from Macca. She also give that to all my siblings and cousin. I could'nt forgot that beautiful holiday that I have been thrught out. I hope that we can do such that things on next time.

The Activities That Foster Family Bond

            Hello friends, are you okay? I'm okay here,I hope you guys happy on your holidays. During this two weeks holidays, my parent had planned for the activities that we are going to do.The activities that we do can foster our family bond.
            One of the activities is my parents planned went back to our village because my cousin is getting married. Before the wedding started my whole family are making gotong-royong cleaning our house with all together. It to make sure that our house are really clean because many guests will attend the wedding.
            Another is after the wedding had completed. It is time for my cousin that had just married to go to a special place for their honeymoon. The best thing is my cousin invited my whole family going honeymoon with them and a sponsored also by my cousin for two days and three nights at Bukit Gambang Resort City. This will foster a closer relationship ties between each member of my family. What a happy holiday!
          A well bond in a family can ensure the happiness in one family.During the weekend we must fill with many beneficial activities.Within two weeks,we can do a lot of things to avoid our time will be in a big waste.These things can foster our family bond.
          We can spend our time together in a picnic or a vacation.Other than release tension we can relaxed our body for a while from work or school.So,what you waiting for?Just enjoy yourself by involving yourself in such various exciting activities.For those who want to help other people you can make 'gotong-royong' that can make your home clean.With this kind of activity we can foster our bond with all our neighbours.
           Besides, as a family, we can have a chat together at any time after having meal or even when we are free. We can talk and share about our problem or what we have been through today in school and at work place. Moreover, by doing this, we can get to know our family member more and our relationship may gets better.
           As a conclusion, there are many activities that we can do with our family to foster family bond. As a family, it is a must for us to do it. 
          

The Activities That Foster Family Bond

     We must to strengthen family bond.There are many activities that we can do with our family in our school holiday.The activities such as dinner,go on a vacation and clean our house together.
     Firstly,my family and I have cleaned the house together.We have cut down the trees at home because my brother wanted to make his home.After that, we clean our home.We also drink coconut water together.We also give coconut water to our neighbours.
     We also have a dinner together at a restaurant.My brother have spend our dinner this is because he has been a bonus for the month.We went to the seafood restaurant.I have been eating a lot.
    Lastly,we was going on a vacation to Langkawi Island.We had gone there with a ferry.I have bought a lot of chocolate to my friends.I hope my family can be a lovely and happy family.